Signposts
on the Road
to
Becoming a Compulsive Debtor
- Being
unclear about your financial situation. Not knowing account balances,
monthly expenses, loan interest rates, fees, fines, or contractual
obligations.
- Frequently
"borrowing" items such as books, pens, or small amounts of money
from friends and others, and failing to return them.
- Poor
saving habits. Not planning for taxes, retirement or other not-recurring but
predictable items, and then feeling surprised when they come due; a
"live for today, don't worry about tomorrow" attitude."
- Compulsive
shopping: Being unable to pass up a "good deal"; making impulsive
purchases; leaving price tags on clothes so they can be returned; not using
items you've purchased.
- Difficulty
in meeting basic financial or personal obligations, and/or an inordinate
sense of accomplishment when such obligations are met.
- A
different feeling when buying things on credit than when paying cash, a
feeling of being in the club, of being accepted, of being grown up.
- Living
in chaos and drama around money: Using one credit card to pay another;
bouncing checks; always having a financial crisis to contend with.
- A
tendency to live on the edge: Living paycheck to paycheck; taking risks with
health and car insurance coverage; writing checks hoping money will appear
to cover them.
- Unwarranted
inhibition and embarrassment in what should be a normal discussion of money.
- Overworking
or underearning: Working extra hours to earn money to pay creditors; using
time inefficiently; taking jobs below your skill and education level.
- An
unwillingness to care for and value yourself: Living in self-imposed
deprivation; denying your basic needs in order to pay your creditors.
- A
feeling or hope that someone will take care of you if necessary, so that you
won't really get into serious financial trouble, that there will always be
someone you can turn to.